Showing posts with label eclectic. Show all posts
Showing posts with label eclectic. Show all posts

Friday, May 4, 2012

"Greening" your celebration

For many Pagans I know, caring for the earth is not only a life style choice, it is part of their religious practice.  Being green is an everyday choice, so their celebrations should reflect that, too.

Here's a few simple and somewhat straightforward ideas for having a greener wedding, handfasting, or commitment celebration.  The list is by no means exhaustive, but they can serve as a starting point for planning.

Local

  • Less travel= less CO2 emissions
  • Local flowers not only require less travelling, they are less likely to spread nuisance pests and non-native seeds into new areas.

Reusable

  • Living plants can not only make your celebration lush and beautiful, they can double as gifts and favors, and they live on long after the day is over. You can also try reselling potted trees and shrubs locally to another couple celebrating or plant them at your home.
  • Cloth napkins and real dishes can be rented from party suppliers, and they are used hundreds of times by the time they meet the end of their life.
  • Look for decorations that might be put to use for other celebrations: buntings can be rehung at barbecues, candle holders can be incorporated into your home decor or holiday decorations.
  • Tulle, burlap or muslin can be used to fill in center pieces, spruce up chairs, decorate tables, and hide unsightly areas.  They also can be reused for craft projects later.

Recyclable

  • If you must have non-reusable tableware for your event (no, I'm not judging, I'm just pointing out that it does happen), think about recyclable and/or compostable products.  You can find them at party supply stores, or get customized versions through etsy. Also look for the Forest Stewardship Council stamp for items manufactured without harming old growth forests.
  • Wedding stationary is notorious for not being recyclable.  When you're looking, look for items that don't include plastic coatings or foil.  Many stationary suppliers now offer recyclable and eco-friendly papers.

Seasonal

  • Seasonal foods and flowers require less travel, and therefore, less fuel.
  • Seasonal foods are also less hard on the climate than items that have to be forced to grow in greenhouses or factory farms. These methods also contribute significantly to global warming.
  • Seasonal often means more abundant, which also tends to equal savings.  
Also, I put together an etsy treasury for some "green" wedding ideas.  Take a look: http://www.etsy.com/treasury/MTAxNTMyNTF8MjcyMjc3NjMyNA/witchy-weddings-green-and-fresh

Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Buying a gown

The wedding gown has become an icon in Western culture.  Many wedding professionals  use your gown as a guide to your style. Everyone you know will have an opinion about what you should wear, and there are literally, thousands of choices available.

I used to sell wedding gowns.  It was a job that was frustrating, entertaining and challenging. My expereinces, however, can benefit you.  Here's all my best advice about gown shopping in a convient list format.

  • Get an idea about what you think you want before you head to a store.  Once you walk in and see a thousand dresses hanging up, it' get's overwhelming.
  • Make appointments to guarantee you will have time with at a salon.
  • For the first few rounds of shopping, take only one or two people who know your taste and want to help you look your best.  I can't tell you how many times I had a bride with an entire entourage (every single one of them with their own agenda) and no clue about what she wanted.  It makes for craziness.  Narrow down your choices first, then bring the whole crowd for the final round (once you've narrowed the selections to two or three).  This will make life much easier for you and your bridal consultant.
  • Be open to trying on a couple of suggestions that you hadn't considered.  A good bridal consultant will know the store's stock, the dressmaker's offerings and have experience with the best gowns for your shape.  You could be pleasantly surprised to find the perfect dress isn't one you had thought of.
  • Also, don't be afraid to ask for a different consultant if the one you start out with isn't a good match.
  • Gowns from most lower and mid range dressmakers will take 8-12 weeks for delivery and then alterations will take about 2-3 weeks on top.  Give yourself time.
  • Get recommendations from people about seamstresses.  Trust me when I say some "professionals" are not.
  • If you are looking for a unique gown, try etsy or other artisan sites.  For period clothing, try Renstore.com, Victorian Trading Co., Amazon Dry Goods, Folkware (patterns only), or vintage clothing stores.
  • Bridesmaids dresses are a great alternative for less formal or inexpensive events.  They are also available in a rainbow of colors.
  • Your gown should be ordered in your current size and altered to fit. Don't bank on losing weight to fit a smaller gown.  Also, don't freak out when you see the number on the size chart.  Formal wear is often sized differently from your everyday clothing.
  • If you can spend time during the week to shop for your gown, you will get more time and better service than on the weekends.
  • Don't let people talk you into things you hate.  You can try them on and discard them, but don't settle.
  • Have fun!
Happy shopping!

Thursday, September 29, 2011

Just a bit of silliness to share

I love Failblog.org's Wedinator.  So much silliness goes on at weddings, and somebody finally harnessed that to turn a profit.  Occasionally, I'll share things I find there here, so keep your eyes open.